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AWARD WINNING SPECIALIST · 30+ YEARS EXPERIENCE · PERSONAL, HIGH-TOUCH SERVICE

Destination Weddings, Honeymoons & Luxury Escapes

Desire To Travel specialises in destination wedding travel, honeymoons and luxury escapes for couples across New Zealand and Australia.

With over 30 years of experience, we create seamless journeys to Fiji, Bali, Thailand, Rarotonga and beyond, allowing you to celebrate life’s most meaningful moments with confidence.

Popular Wedding & Honeymoon Destinations

Thoughtfully curated romance travel, without the stress.

Explore some of our most popular destinations for destination weddings, honeymoons and romantic escapes, including Fiji, Rarotonga, Bali and Thailand.

Who this is for

THIS IS FOR YOU IF

  • You’re planning a destination wedding or honeymoon and want it done properly

  • You value experience, transparency, and calm leadership

  • You don’t want to manage flights, guests, logistics, or overseas details

  • You want luxury that feels intentional, not flashy or generic

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF

  • You’re looking for the cheapest deal

  • You prefer DIY planning or online booking platforms

  • You want a templated resort package

  • You don’t value personal service or expert advice

Why Couples Choose Desire To Travel

Sharp honesty meets intuitive care.

I’m known for telling you what’s worth your time, and what isn’t.

  • Award-winning destination wedding and romance travel specialist.

  • You work directly with me, not a team, not a platform.

  • Deep, decades-long relationships with trusted suppliers and resorts.

  • A travel-first approach that seamlessly manages guests, flights, and logistics.

  • Calm oversight from start to finish, so nothing is left to chance.

This isn’t about selling travel.

It’s about protecting your experience.

Signature Experiences

Every couple’s journey is different.

I guide you through as much or as little as you need, always with expert oversight and personal care.

Awards & Recognition

Quietly recognised for experience, integrity, and expertise.

Destination Wedding Specialist of the Year (2019)
Outstanding Wedding Planner of the Year (2022)

Trusted by hundreds of couples across Fiji, Bali, Rarotonga & Thailand
Featured contributor to My Wedding Magazine & Bula Bride
Invited speaker at leading romance travel events across the Pacific

About Anita

MEET YOUR SPECIALIST

I’m Anita Gatley, an award-winning romance travel specialist with over 30 years in the travel industry and a reputation for calm, honest guidance.

You’re not booking through a system.

You’re booking with someone who takes responsibility for every moving part of your journey, and treats your celebration like it matters.

Because it does.

Kind Words

IT TRUELY WAS A TRIP OF A LIFETIME.

We legitimately can’t say enough wonderful things about what a great job you did helping us organise this trip to marry in Fiji.

The champagne that was in our room at Tadrai was a very nice touch! Thank you so, so, so much for getting this all put together.

Kama- Catch me was so wonderful to work with as well. We went hand-line fishing- Levi was so proud hahaha.

The helicopter ride was 100 % worth it.

You were absolutely right about the Marriott being a little out of the way, but the place was really nice. Tadrai took us on a sunset cruise one night, so much fun. Everyone who worked at Tadrai was AMAZING! We made a few new friends. Thanks again for everything, Anita! It truly was a trip of a lifetime.

Maggie and Levi (Russell-Stanley) Ohio USA

Brand Pillars

ROMANCE EXPERTISE, REFINED

With decades in the romance travel niche, I bring clarity, confidence, and perspective to every decision.

TRUSTED GLOBAL NETWORK

My long-standing relationships open doors and protect my clients from costly mistakes.

PERSONAL, HIGH-TOUCH SERVICE

Every email, booking, and detail is handled by me, personally.

Real Celebrations

REAL WEDDINGS. REAL EXPERIENCES. REAL PEACE OF MIND.

From intimate elopements to full island celebrations, my clients describe the same feeling:

“It felt like being a guest at our own wedding.”

Explore a selection of real destination weddings and celebrations I’ve personally managed.

Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to some of the most common questions couples ask when planning destination wedding travel.

WHAT IS A DESTINATION WEDDING?

A destination wedding combines your wedding celebration and travel experience in one unforgettable location. Whether you’re dreaming of a beachfront ceremony in Fiji, a luxury resort in Bali, or a romantic island setting in Rarotonga, we help manage the travel details so you can focus on enjoying the experience.

WHICH DESTINATIONS ARE BEST FOR DESTINATION WEDDINGS?

Some of our most popular destination wedding locations include Fiji, Rarotonga, Bali, Thailand and the Cook Islands. The best destination for you will depend on your budget, guest numbers, travel preferences and the style of celebration you envision.

DO YOU HELP PLAN HONEYMOONS?

Yes. We specialise in personalised honeymoon planning and can create romantic itineraries tailored to your interests, whether you’re looking for relaxation, adventure, luxury resorts or a combination of experiences.

CAN YOU ARRANGE TRAVEL FOR WEDDING GUESTS?

Absolutely. We can coordinate flights, accommodation and travel arrangements for wedding guests, helping ensure everyone arrives smoothly and enjoys a stress-free experience.

DO YOU WORK WITH COUPLES THROUGHOUT NEW ZEALAND?

Yes. We work with couples across New Zealand and Australia, providing expert advice and personalised support throughout the planning process, regardless of where you’re based.

HOW FAR IN ADVANCE SHOULD WE START PLANNING A DESTINATION WEDDING?

We recommend starting the planning process 12–18 months before your preferred wedding date. This provides the best choice of venues, accommodation and travel options, particularly for popular destinations and peak travel periods.

Leave the details to me

YOU FOCUS ON THE MOMENTS.

If you’re ready for destination wedding travel that feels effortless, personal, and beautifully handled, let’s talk.